Dear Girl...

I read this article on facebook few days ago. I think it's great to copy, paste and post the article here..

"Dear Girl,

There’s something that’s been bothering me. Every time I think of it, I want to say something, but it never seems to come out. So, I thought I’d write you a letter.

You may not know me yet. I may not even know you yet. But someday, you’ll be my wife. I want to be able to share everything with you. My dreams, my work, my heart. And I want my heart to be whole, to give you all of it. I want my mind pure, so that I can truly delight in your beauty.

But I’m afraid that I have to fight to do that. Everywhere, pictures and movies and music, all pull my mind and my heart towards impure thoughts and desires. If I give in and stop fighting, I know I’ll become a prisoner of the very thing I’m struggling against. I know you don’t understand this. And you don’t have to understand it all. I don’t want you
to understand all of it, because that means you would have the same struggles I have.

But I need you to help me.

I need you to be careful in how you dress. And how you move. The girls who wear really short skirts, or really tight shirts, they definitely get attention from guys. But trust me, it’s not the attention you want. I know. To be blunt…they aren’t admiring those girls’ beauty or “cuteness.” It’s purely sexual lust.

Then the guys like me, who don’t want to think like that, have to look away. Maybe even ignore those girls. I don’t want to see that much of any
woman. Because I want to someday see only you, as my wife.

I have another blunt thing to say. Besides not wanting to see other girls’ bodies…I don’t want another man to see yours. Ever. Yes, that’s kind of possessive. But it’s also protection. I want to guard you from the guys who would want to take advantage of you. I know you don’t want men to think of you in an impure way. It's degrading to you.

Can you see how important this is to me?
This isn’t just a “you know, if you have time or think about it” deal. This is
serious to me. This is the life or death of my purity. I love you and want to
save myself for you. Modesty is a tool you can strengthen me with, even protect me with. Immodesty is a weapon that cuts me down.

In this area, I’m at your mercy.

If you love me…please. Hear me. For your sake…for my sake.

Yours Truly,
Boy"

This One's For the Girls

This is for all you girls about 13

high school can be so rough,

can be so mean

Hold on to, on to your innocence

Stand your ground

when everybody’s givin’ in

This one’s for the girls

This is for all you girls about 25

In little apartments, just tryin’ to get by

Livin’ on, on dreams and spaghettios

Wonderin’ where your life is gonna go

This one’s for the girls

Who’ve ever had a broken heart

Who’ve wished upon a shooting star

You’re beautiful the way you are

This one’s for the girls

This one’s for all you girls about 42

Tossin’ pennies into the fountain of youth

Every laugh, laugh line on your face

Made you who you are today

This one’s for the girls

Who’ve ever had a broken heart

Who’ve wished upon a shooting star

You’re beautiful the way you are

This one’s for the girls

Who love without holdin’ back

Who dream with everything they have

All around the world

This one’s for the girls

We’re all the same inside from 1 to 99

This one’s for the girls

This song sung by Cadia, a duet of two beautiful young girls. I fall for the lyrics of the song. It actually well said. The theme it brought is so familiar with us, girls or woman or ladies or grannies (hahaha), is all about the beauty from heart, about all the lessons life given, about dreams, hopes, madness, (randomness, if I may) that in the process fashioned us to be what we are now. It say that whatever ever happen in our life, whatever the colour we choose to beautify the rainbow, it doesn't matter, we are all beautiful the way we are. One thing that I always put in my mind since I don't remember when is that God created me in special kind of way, unique, each one of us, God pour down all His creativities to build the most beautiful creature called..(drum, please) WOMAN.. His gentleness and sentivity are special made for us.. Precious we are, and He love us.. It's not a poem, but it's real.. It might seems too idealistic, unrealistic..But, hey girl, this one's for the girls.. God love us because He made us perfectly in His eyes, let be no one ever said anything less than that.. Girls, you are beautiful..

Be grateful with how we looks like, thankful the colours of our skin, joyful for the shape of our body, and realize that the true beauty is come from your heart.. it all can adds up the shine on your eyes (Uhm..okay, it might not literally, but you know what I mean)..

The verses said

"What matters is not your outer appearance--the styling of your hair, the
jewelry you wear, the cut of your clothes--but your inner disposition. Cultivate
inner beauty, the gentle, gracious kind that God delights in (1 Peter 3 :
13-14)",

so if it said the outer isn't matter it doesn't mean that we would neglect our physical appearance.. it's okay to take times for your hair treatment or facial or anything elses but it would be so poor if we're making those things as our top priorities and put the less of our time and energy to do the important things such as doing what God wants in our life, or doing good to other people who in needs.. Girls, there're so many things happen around and those things cry out for our beauty of heart.. Be graceful and be blessed.. This one's for the girls..

Write the Writinglessness

Whoa!!!!!!!!No writings in three months?! Talking about productivity, huh?? The lack of writings are not intend to happen. It’ll because of my dearest hectic life was flowing like a river in the canal full of rocks. There’s no option of anything. No option of putting myself in a cozy chair and starting to write down my strange thoughts. And absolutely no option of daydreaming.
But, anyway, despite of all the writinglessness, I’ve got a grand plan somewhere here in the part of my random mind iniside of my tiny brain. So, as a ransom thinker, the plan will be so random too. And I’ve decided to post about it before the muse is gone with the wind.
These past months had gave me a wonderfully blessed days, days to share and cherish as well like other days in my life. Great things have taken place in part of my years of living lately. Let me briefly elaborate it here:

1. This May, I’ve done a trip to several cities i.e Jakarta, Semarang and Jogjakarta (alone --of course) just in two weeks. And I visited beautiful hindu and buddha’s temples there too. Some great places. Took some pictures but I guess it never enough. Sort of doing some research for pre wedding pictures. LOL.Basicly, it’s so amazing, all the people, places and the trip itself. I might going to tell about all the details of the trip in my next posts (hopefully..).


2. I stayed with my best friends who move to Jakarta last year. They’re waiting on baby now. And I’m grateful for having them as friends and family, they have always open up their hearts and doors for me. Thank you bro and sista..Love y’all.


3. I did something that is purely spontaneous on my way back to my hometown. I talk to stranger. That’s another story to share.


4. Another thing happen spontaneously (yeah, right?!), I gain extra pounds. It’s okay when the pants still fit in, but when I hardly can’t breathe while wear the pants, I can say that’s a major problem. Top priority.


5. Uhm..oh yeach..my friends and part of family in Semarang just gave birth their first baby girl. Welcome Nara. Lots of love for you, dear.
   

Well..I’ve said it..guess that’s all. Uhm..it totally relieving to write and post something here. Can’t wait to post another writings. By the way the picture was taken in Lawang Sewu, Semarang, one of the place I visited. thought it look great.